Thursday, July 25, 2019

Saving Money for Polishing the Pulpit or Travel!

Our family enjoys traveling, but let's be honest.....traveling with four kids isn't the cheapest!  We are not camper people, so that is not an option for us.  Wesley recently discovered travel hacking. He listened to some podcasts about it & did some online courses & signed us up for a Capital One Venture Card.  Now, let me saw first that I generally dislike credit cards (hello, Dave Ramsey!), BUT we pay it off each month...NO exceptions. If you are not someone who can do that, then this option is not for you.  

The way this card works is that you acquire points based on your spending that you can use for travel: lodging, airline tickets, & rental cars. When we signed up, they had sign on bonuses so that was really nice too!  Wesley signed both of us up for a card.  His card is saved in our online shopping (Amazon, etc) & is used for eating out or when he gets gas. Mine is used for groceries & whatever I purchase out of the house.  Within the FIRST month (our normal spending plus sign on bonus), we had enough points to wipe off the deposit for our cabin for PTP! It was kind of magical to click on the app.....click over to points & erase a huge charge like a cabin deposit! This is going to be a huge blessing to our family (free lodging for Polishing the Pulpit?!) & I hope it helps some of you too!  We got an email recently that if someone uses our referral link, we can earn "up to $500 in bonuses—plus, they’ll get unlimited 2X miles per dollar on every purchase, every day."  If this sounds like something that would work for you, please use my link to sign up!  
We would be happy to answer any additional questions. Just email or call us!

Also, if you don't know what Polishing the Pulpit is, you need to! Check out this episode about how it has blessed our family!

How Polishing the Pulpit Has Blessed Our Family

It's that time of year when we are preparing for Polishing the Pulpit! This will be our 9th year to attend & if you are around us for any amount of time, you'll know we love it. Here's an episode we recorded about why we love PTP so much.  



And if you're thinking PTP would be great, but you don't know how to afford the trip, check out this post about how we are paying for our cabin this year!

Sunday, July 14, 2019

Legacy Family Camp East 2019

We are extremely excited & prayerful about this opportunity for families in the East/Southeast. We have been working for awhile with the Wells & Minors to get this type of event in our area, & we pray you’ll consider taking advantage of it. Registration opens tomorrow at 10am Eastern/9am Central time. We don’t know how quickly it will fill up, but we have had a lot of interest. Check out our Facebook & Instagram for more info. Let us know if you have any questions! The website for Legacy East will go live in the morning when registration opens, but you can see the Oklahoma schedule for an idea of what it will be like. We will have different topics & a few different free time activities, but you can get the general idea there. Come join us for this weekend of encouraging Christian families!

@legacyfamilycampeast

Tuesday, May 28, 2019

Legacy Family Camp East Speakers 2019

Sharing to get the word out about our first family camp in the "East." The Skelton & Wells families are VERY excited to share this opportunity with others! We pray you will be considering this event to encourage & strengthen your family. You can like the page Legacy Family Camp East on Facebook or Instagram (@legacyfamilycampeast) to follow for more updates on registration (coming soon!). Let us know if you have any questions! We have a limited number of spots available & we have had a lot of interest. This year's speakers are Steve Minor & Joe Wells.

Monday, May 20, 2019

Legacy Family Camp East

We have exciting news! The first annual Legacy Family Camp East will be October 31 - November 3 at Taylor Christian Camp in Holland, Kentucky. We pray you & your family will be making plans to attend! Registration date coming soon! Follow our Facebook page for updates!


Friday, April 5, 2019

Surviving with Sick Kids

If you have kids, then chances are you’ve had sick kids!  In the moment, it feels like it will never end. On this episode, we talk about how to survive when sickness runs through your home.


ENCOURAGING VERSES

  • “Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body; and be thankful.”
    ‭‭Colossians‬ ‭3:15‬ ‭NASB‬‬
  • “Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Do not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful.”
    ‭‭John‬ ‭14:27‬ ‭NASB‬‬
  • But they that wait upon the Lᴏʀᴅ shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
    Isaiah 40:31
  • Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
    Philippians 4:6-7 KJVS
  • Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content
    Philippians 4:11
  • Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.
    ‭‭James‬ ‭1:2-4‬ ‭

Tuesday, April 2, 2019

How to Study the Bible When You Have Young Children

I have to share this. I literally posted this post & then went to Facebook & saw on my memories that this was posted two years ago! 



Our lives look different after children: our marriages, our free time, and even our Bible study. Today, we wanted to share with you some tips on how to get in the Word! 

We've recorded two podcast episodes where we talk about some Bible study tips & tools for parents.
Parents Getting Into the Word
Bible Study

I also talked about this topic in a 7 Minutes of Wisdom at Polishing the Pulpit.  Here are my notes from that session. I hope it will help you!
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Personal Bible Study
*Your life looks different after kids!  That includes your marriage, your free time, your housework, & even your Bible study.  

Quick Tips:
*PRAY about it! Don't you think if you pray about this that God will bless your efforts?!
*BUDGET your time. Time is just like money. You have a certain amount of it & when it's gone, it's gone! Make a schedule!
*Get up early. It’s quiet, you likely have more time to actually study, & then you know it is done.
*Listen to the Bible or a podcast/lesson as you get ready in the morning. Use a Bible app that reads to you (I use YouVersion)
*Try Breakfast Bible Time with your kids or while they eat
*Make a Bible study basket. Keep everything all in one place.
*Put sticky notes in your Bible-write down whatever random thoughts come into your head while you studyBible thoughts or stuff you think of that you need to do later (my phone is a huge distraction, so if I pull my phone out to set a reminder, I suddenly find myself checking every notification that came up)
*DEAR time with your kids. Drop Everything And Readthey are to “read” or look at Bible books & you do some Bible study.  Depending on the age of your children, it may not be more than 10-15 minutes.  You can start with five minutes if they are really small & then work your way up to a longer amount of time.  Try reading the books to them before or after to help hold their attention longer & add in some extra instruction for them.  **It’s also GOOD for your kids to SEE you study your Bible!
*Have a PLAN.  Know what you will be studying before you sit down. Make a weekly plan if necessary. Example: M-Digging Deep, T-Bible Marking, W-Bible class assignment/material, R-Chronological reading, F-Come Fill Your Cup, S-Bible class assignment/material

Tools/Ideas:
*Use online tools: The Bible Project animated summaries of each book of the Bible. Visually helps you to remember what you are learning about each book.  DISCLAIMER-as far as I know, they are not made by members of the church & I have not watched every one.
Use Come Fill Your Cup for Bible studies & Bible markingCFYC is starting a study of 1, 2, & 3 John- this Friday on Facebook/their website.  They also have an awesome Book by Book Study going on with a different book of the Bible each month as well as a 2019 Reading Plan.  This is the the outline for the 1-3 John study:


*Use the PTP thumb drive or online sermons to listen throughout the day (sometimes I do this during lunch or when I’m cleaning up after a meal). 
*The Light Network: www.thelightnetwork.tv (Christian podcasts-check the archives too!) *PTP365 www.365.polishingthepulpit.com


*IMMERSE yourself in the Word.  You can do this by using little bits of time you have throughout the day.  It may be listening to a chapter or two as you get ready in the morning, studying for a few minutes during breakfast or before the kids wake up, listening to a podcast during nap time/while doing housework (IRONING!), or after they are in bed.  Young moms do not have a lot of free time, so make the best of the time you have.

*Use a study guide/book.  When I have a newborn especially, I cannot sit & just read chapters (or even one) at a time. I can’t remember what I read & when I am really sleep deprived, I fall asleep!  Using a study guide or book helps keep me focused & not be overwhelmed by reading a bunch at one time.  Kaio Publications & the Colley House have some great ones.

*Find an accountability partner or study group.  This is why I LOVE the Digging Deep Bible study so much.  There is a live video podcast at the end of each month that you can participate in, short audio podcasts throughout the month, a Facebook group to post/answer questions you may have, & we have a group from our congregation meeting each month.  If you don’t have a study group in your area, make one!  See if you can get some teen girls or older ladies from your congregation to volunteer to watch the kids while the moms study.  This would be a great opportunity to invite non-Christians as well.

*Start a group text Bible study. Pick 5-6 of your sisters in Christ who are interested & have a group text.  Someone can send out a verse/passage/topic in the morning & then you can answer/see other’s thoughts on the topic as you go throughout the day.  It gives you something to consider & help you to meditate on the Word as you care for your family & home.



Thursday, March 28, 2019

Richmond church of Christ Family Seminar

Fantastic artwork by Chantelle Marie

We were honored to be asked to speak at the Richmond congregation's first family seminar. We know what a blessing that our family seminar has been to us & also how much work it is to put together!  The speakers were Austin Johnson & Wesley. Vicky & I also spoke to the ladies about family bible time resources (I believe they will have that video on a ladies only page). They have the lessons on their YouTube page, so I wanted to share them here too.  Wesley had a "heavy" session in the "Hot Topics" lesson.  It was amazing how Austin's lesson about family mission statements flowed so well with what Wesley had planned for that last session.  We hope these will be an encouragement to your families!








Wednesday, March 20, 2019

Getting the Bible into the Hearts of Young Children-Our Favorite Bible Time Resources


We were asked to speak recently on how to get the Bible into the hearts of our young children.  Since we have four children ages eight & under, we have quite a few resources that we really love.  We KNOW there are unlimited other resources that are amazing for teaching the Bible to your children.  These are just a few that we have used & love.

Amazon is a super handy place to get most of these items.  *The Amazon links are affiliate links, but I am only linking what we truly love & use. Click on the image to find it on Amazon.*  I will try to make comments on each one so you know if it will work for your kids!


 The Young Readers Bible is a great beginning storybook Bible for littles.  We began using it when Hannah Kate was a baby. The stories are shorter & the illustrations are eye catching. (This book was recently-maybe in the last 3-4 years-republished with a new cover image. We wore the cover off of our first one because we loved it so much!)
 Egermeier's Bible Story Book is great as the kids get a little older. We started using it maybe when Hannah Kate was 3-4 years old.  The stories are more detailed & there are less pictures.
 We got the Complete Illustrated Children's Bible for our "big kids" for Christmas last year. They are 8 & 6 years old. The pictures are BEAUTIFUL & the stories are only about two pages long each. I wish they were longer, but our kids LOVE the illustrations.  We liked it so much that I immediately bought one for our niece.  Micaiah (6 years old) wants to read the Bible so badly he has been keeping this one in his bed.  *We have not read every story yet, so I don't know if there are issues with any of the stories being Biblically accurate.  Generally, we either change the words as we read or make actual corrections with a pen if absolutely needed since we have readers in the house now!
 We got The Rhyme Bible Storybook for our "little kids" for Christmas last year. The are 4 & 2 years old & they LOVE it.  Of course, it rhymes! The stories are short & the pictures are pretty too.  We love to read several stories at a time.
We have had The Jesus Storybook Bible for several years. It is not my favorite because I feel like it gets a little imaginative with some of the stories.  I feel like I need to comment each time & tell the kids that we don't *really* know that it happened exactly that way. BUT, as you can tell from the title, it points to Jesus in each story.  I do think that is pretty neat & a great thing for our kids (& us!) to learn as they learn to study the Bible.  We also somehow got this book on Audible (free subscription turned into forgot to cancel! Oops! Micaiah LOVES listening to this.)

The Arch Books are favorites in our home. We probably have 20 or more, so I am not going to link each one! I have only found a VERY few that were not Biblically accurate. Of course, the birth/death of Jesus ones have some denominational teachings so we did not get those.  As far as I know, we have all of these & they are good! If you have questions about specific titles, you are welcome to email me!  These books all rhyme & are pretty well detailed.  All of our kids, ages 8-2, love them!
 

Noah loves these so much that he just started jumping up & down telling me we already have these books when he saw them on the screen!


 We also love to find books like these for our littles. I love this illustrator anyway, so this Jesus Loves Me is definitely a hit. We've used it as gifts for other babies & for our NICU bags that we do!

The Busy Bible is something that we LOVE to use with our littles especially at PTP! There are two editions of it. It is a fabric book with different interactive things that your little one can do that relate to a Bible story.  We do not use books/toys during worship for our kids, but if you do, this would be a great one to use.  I also used to do a Bible lesson with it for Hannah Kate when she was a baby.
Here are some pictures of a few of the pages.





Here is the other edition.  (I will say that I have never bought these from Amazon. We always ordered from Christian Family Bookstore in Chattanooga-they also had a better price.)  If these are out of the budget, you could always make one or have a grandma or lady from your congregation help you to make one!  A friend & I did a similar book that we called Bible ABCs or something similar. We had an interactive thing on each page. It took forever, but all of our kids have loved it! (It was made on the computer/printed & laminated.)





The KidSing cards that the Colleys/West Huntsville have produced are a great resource for Bible time and it is FREE. Check them out here.  When ours were younger, I found clip art to go with the KidSing topics to help them memorize them.

Apologetics Press always has amazing resources for teaching our children the truth of God's Word, how it really came from Him, & amazing facts about His creation.  I am not going to take the time to go into all of them, but we have loved the Creation Cards (babies/toddlers, but really our bigger kids would love reading the facts too!), AP readers, & various books!  AP also has a FREE downloadable curriculum that you can use in Bible classes at your congregation or for your at home Bible lessons!


Kaio Publications is another favorite for family Bible time! They have an awesome set of object lesson devotionals.  You can purchase them individually or your elders can purchase a license for the whole congregation. Our kids LOVE the Football the Piggy book!


We use & LOVE Bible Study Guide for All Ages.  We have used it in our Bible lesson we do during homeschool as well as Bible time.  We tell you all about how we have used it here.
Hannah Kate showing on of the Bible book summary cards that we love!
We also have several CDs that we really love! Our favorites are Each Little Dewdrop, Children's Bible Songs (BSGFAA-there are some with clapping that we skip) & Hannah's Hundred.  You should be able to find any of these at a brotherhood bookstore.

Cindy Colley has also written a great book that you can use for a month of your family Bible time! It is a story book & then there are ideas on what to do with your kids.

When we were having trouble with our children getting along (imagine that!), we got the My Brother's Keeper book.  We did the junior version, but they also have youth. You can check out the ages to determine which one you should get.  I just got one book & they all shared it.  When it gave them a chance to write in the book or draw a picture, I would have them take turns or divide the drawing area into sections.  We also just completed the Because I Said So... study, so I expect everyone to be perfectly obeying like tomorrow!  :) We have loved both of these books-there was some mention of children sinning, but I edited that out as we read it.




We also have this study on godly contentment that I plan to start with them soon!


We also want to share a new resource that is on Facebook. The Medwar family has started a page called "Family Bible Time." They go live on Tuesdays at 7:30pm EST & do a devotional/Bible time with their family for everyone to join in! They've only done two so far, but they will all be available for viewing on the page after they are live too.  Below is what they have posted on their page:

We have been doing “Bible Time” with our family for a few years and have often commented that it would be great if somewhere we could find a collection of 5-10 minute devotional videos geared towards children to use as one of the resources for our Bible Time. We recently came across a Facebook post that shared the story of a school principal from Texas that goes live on Facebook once a week and reads a book to her students. We immediately thought, “she’s onto something!” After some thought, prayer, and asking our friends for advice, we are excited to invite you and your family to join us every Tuesday evening at 7:30pm EST for Family Bible Time. The devotional will be geared toward elementary aged kids and will last approximately 10 minutes. There will be nothing professional about these devotionals. We are a real family with real kids who act up from time to time. We are not attempting to show you a perfect family in any way. It’s quite the opposite! We want to invite you into our real life and learn the Bible together. We hope this will encourage you to start doing “Bible Time” with your own family on the other days of the week! It’s our goal to show you how simple, yet meaningful it can be and give you courage to keep going even if it seems no one is listening. 

These videos can also be viewed after the live showing, so that you can be part of it regardless of bedtime or evening commitments. Please join us and invite your friends as well!


My sweet friend & sister in Christ, Vicky Yocum, spoke at the Richmond church of Christ Family Seminar about getting the Word into the hearts of middle & high school children.  She graciously shared her favorite resources. You can find the Google Doc HERE.
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I just also want to say that we must also be sure that OUR personal Bible study is happening in order for us to teach our children. Not only will we not have the knowledge we need to share with them, but they will see that we are not really meaning what we say if we are not students of God’s Word as well.  We have two episodes on our podcast about that if you want some tips for your own personal Bible study.


We hope this helps you as you look for great Bible time resources!

Tuesday, March 19, 2019

Arrows in Our Hand Bible Time Resources


Family Bible Time is one of the most important things that we can do to get the Word of God into the hearts of our children. We have written on this blog about it a couple of times & we have several podcast episodes about resources we have used.  We are working on an upcoming family seminar session & I thought it would be handy to have all of the resources in one place.

**The family seminar was a success! You can find Wesley's lesson on Family Bible Time HERE.**

PODCAST EPISODES--You can find any resources mentioned in the show notes at the episode link.

"Family Bible Time" S1E5

On this episode, we explain why Bible time is so important to families. We cover why, when, & how to implement it as well as some challenges we have faced. (The Glenn Colley lesson on Family Devotionals can be found here.)  There is also a blog post that goes along with this episode. You can find it with a list of resources here.

"Family Bible Time in Action Part 1" S1E6

On this episode, we discuss ways to incorporate singing into your Family Bible Time. This episode has a blog post with some songs in it also. You can find it here.

"Even More Family Bible Time Part 1" S5E6
"Even More Family Bible Time Part 1" S5E7

Rob and Mallory Baker join us on this two part episode about family Bible time. They discuss the importance of Bible time each day as well as some ideas and resources for kids of all ages. 
"Family Bible Time" S8E1 (Do you like the originality of our episode titles?! In our defense, this was spread out over several years!)
We are always looking for resources for our family bible time. On this episode, we discuss how we have used Bible Study Guide for All Ages in our Bible lessons/ Bible time as a family.
“FAMILY BIBLE TIME RESOURCE-PRYOR CONVICTIONS & THE STORY OF THE BIBLE” (ARROWS IN OUR HAND S8E4)

Jake and Gina Simpson joined us on this episode to talk about two resources that are great to use in Family Bible Time-Pryor Convictions & The Story of the Bible.

BLOG POSTS

Family Bible Time (with a list of resources that we love, some songs, & ideas)


Family Bible Time in Action (includes some songs we love!)

Baby Bible Time-I wrote this post when Hannah Kate was a baby about what things we did with just her.  

We hope these episodes will encourage you as you try to get God's Word into your children's hearts. We would love to answer any questions you may have! Just email us!


We also want to share a new resource that is on Facebook. The Medwar family has started a page called "Family Bible Time." They go live on Tuesdays at 7:30pm EST & do a devotional/Bible time with their family for everyone to join in! They've only done two so far, but they will all be available for viewing on the page after they are live too.  Below is what they have posted on their page:
We have been doing “Bible Time” with our family for a few years and have often commented that it would be great if somewhere we could find a collection of 5-10 minute devotional videos geared towards children to use as one of the resources for our Bible Time. We recently came across a Facebook post that shared the story of a school principal from Texas that goes live on Facebook once a week and reads a book to her students. We immediately thought, “she’s onto something!” After some thought, prayer, and asking our friends for advice, we are excited to invite you and your family to join us every Tuesday evening at 7:30pm EST for Family Bible Time. The devotional will be geared toward elementary aged kids and will last approximately 10 minutes. There will be nothing professional about these devotionals. We are a real family with real kids who act up from time to time. We are not attempting to show you a perfect family in any way. It’s quite the opposite! We want to invite you into our real life and learn the Bible together. We hope this will encourage you to start doing “Bible Time” with your own family on the other days of the week! It’s our goal to show you how simple, yet meaningful it can be and give you courage to keep going even if it seems no one is listening. 



These videos can also be viewed after the live showing, so that you can be part of it regardless of bedtime or evening commitments. Please join us and invite your friends as well!